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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is exactly how people end up in sexless marriages.

I'm female, and I still don't get this. If you are not interested in the carnal side of things, why date at all? Get out with friends who don't mind keeping it completely platonic.[/quote]

Because not everyone thinks like you? Get over yourself. [/quote]

Oh, I'm over myself. I'm happily married :mrgreen: OP is not.[/quote]

+1! Another happily married woman here. DC has had an unwritten third date rule pretty much since the 1980s! I had a fifth date rule myself and I let him know this because I wanted him to know that I really wanted to get to know him first. Now, of course, I realize that you can't really know someone that early on, but when can you really know anyone? Anyway, sure enough DH and I had sex on the fifth date, and it did develop into a relationship, but there are no guarantees.

The point is that everyone is busy, this guy is devoting time to OP, and OP is unsure of what she wants. OP, figure it out, and tell him ... or the next guy, whatever works out ... but remember that both parties have expectations, realistic or not.

Oh, BTW, Washington is not #5 in STD rates, it's #10: https://www.stdcheck.com/blog/top-10-us-cities-positive-std-tests/[/quote]

10 in the US is pretty high but it is 5 for hiv. So say you or the OP arr browsing tinder the number 1 hookup app for women and you meet a guy and hit it off and hookup then he tells you that he was a sex offender would you feel slezy or great for giving it up to him now?[/quote]

Excuse me, what you talking about? This is one of the most confusing posts I've ever read on DCUM, and that says so much![/quote]

What exactly is difficult to comprehend? I gave you a scenario and you did not give a response.[/quote]

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