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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, there seems to be a reason for all aspects of your current situation ("yes, but..."). Then accept it and try to find joy in your life. Maybe a therapist (not infertility but a regular one) could help, or antidepressants. It sounds like all you really need is commiseration. And maybe, just maybe, you get declined for playdates because of you, not because others are too busy. You're full of complaints and misery.[/quote]

I agree with this.

OP, people are making suggestions that might help and you have a reason you can't do any of them.  Most of them aren't terribly compelling reasons and you sound fairly passive, but ok.  So either make a plan and do something proactive (and that might mean talking to your DH) OR if you're not able to do anything differently, stop focusing on all the things that are wrong and focus on the positives of your situation.  I think you should even stop posting on DCUM about it.  (I'm pretty sure I've seen you post before in other forums.)  Just get out of the head space of talking about this and complaining about this and doing nothing and circling down the drain.  I truly think that will help.

Good luck.[/quote]

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