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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] PP now that I think through, I don't think Indian families have that much of an issue marrying their daughters of to a Non-indian man. There are way too many examples of successful marriages and happy ILs, that I see. They would balk at the thought of getting a DIL from a diff. culture though. That's because women have the role of peace keepers/relationship builders in the family and that does require a deeper understanding and tolerance of family dynamics. That aside, I think every Indian parent dreads losing their culture, language, customs and traditions. Keep up with that and they're happy.[/quote] PP you quoted -- that's probably true (although not relevant to OP's situation). But I also think that American born/raised Indian girls behave more like the Americans they are, rather than ideal Indian DILs and that can raise issues with Indian-born parents-in-law, with the added bitterness of the parents thinking that she should 'know' better because she's Indian. [/quote]
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