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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Depends on how he is in general. I have a wealthy family member who makes grand gestures like that. He truly just wants everyone to be happy. He is humble about his offers expects absolutely nothing in return. I have a wealthy friend. I won't even let her pick up the tab for lunch because I feel like she is keeping score and expects favors and things in return. If bil has good intentions, then take him up on the offer, buy him some drinks or a meal, write a nice thank you note, and enjoy.[/quote] This. I think the people that are opposed to the BIL and this trip are assuming the motivations are something like the wealthy friend desribed above, instead of the nice (but coincidentally wealthy) family member also described above. There is nothing in the OP's post to suggest it was anything other than BIL offering a fun opportunity for the family to all get together (as they do every year) but this time at a fun destination. [/quote]
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