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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your husband's parents seem to love their ex-daughter in law and grandchild and it is completely appropriate for them to separately celebrate holidays when you and your husband are not around. In fact, it makes perfect sense since it is obvious you and your husband would not get along at all with your husband's ex-wife. When your husband divorced his ex-wife and married you, in no way does that create any moral, ethical, or legal obligation for his parents to cut ties or otherwise treat his ex-wife any differently at all, as the mom of their grandchild, then they treated her prior to the divorce. You and your husband have issues with their close relationship with your husband's ex. The fact that you, and he, cannot see that the problem rests with yourself, and him, rather than with his ex, or the in-laws, is a clear symptom of the problem itself. I don't know if that's narcissism or what, but you and your husband are the ones in need of therapy.[/quote]
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