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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anonymouslynyrd send the pen video SO is in to your LO.[/quote]

I thought about doing just this, but couldn't think of a way to do it that wouldn't come back to me.[/quote]

Fake hotmail account. [/quote]

I agree with this 100%. This way, you're ensuring your LO has the information without making them/their SO feel awkward around you if they already knew about it/decide to continue relationship once they find out. If there's some way to request a read receipt on the email, if do it, to make sure it didn't wind up deleted as junk since it was coming from an anonymous address. Or put something in the message to give the person instructions on how to find it themselves "Dear Bob, I think this is information you should have if you don't already. Please visit the following link or Google Amber+escort+Maryland and once you do, please just reply saying "I saw it." I promise you that I will never bring this up again or in person. Signed, someone who loves you"[/quote]

If the LO has any computer skills, he or she will find out where it came from. This is a terrible idea. OP, don't be a coward and a snitch. If you are going to do this, you must face your LO and risk being seen as a meddling bitch. It is possible that the LO will be grateful but even if this is taken as a reason to dump the SO, people usually do want to shoot the messenger. You should not have gone snooping and confirming this and now it is yours to live with. [/quote]

lol, I'm the one who suggested sending anonymously. Apologies for the word scramble, I typed real fast on my phone and didn't check before I submitted.  The porn you saw the SO in - is it available on DVD, or is it just on the internet?  If on the internet, could you buy it and download it on a CD or flash drive, and then mail it to your LO?

I normally like to stay out of people's business, but in this case I think your LO should know.  What if he ends up marrying her and having kids with her, and said kid finds his mom in internet porn later in life.  What if said kid's friends see his mom in porn?  If I was LO I would want to know as I think it may be a deciding factor in marrying.  [/quote]

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