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[quote=Anonymous]To the husbands unhappy with their low drive wives -- have you explored to ensure you're offering the kind of sex and sexual variety she is really dreaming about? Of course, if what she truly wants is missionary that lasts 5 seconds, this doesn't apply.

In my marriage, I was initially the high drive partner and over the course of many years became the low drive one when my husband was completely unwilling to explore any variety of sex like I wanted to have. Was all about what he wanted... which was really really boring and repetitive. At some point I completely stopped wanting to have sex with him because he was entirely uninterested in what I wanted. I tried pulling him toward some variety with high frequency sex, showing him what I liked, etc, but he couldn't get there and that did not work out.

I'm guessing I am more a female anomaly for a situation men live with all the time than coming in with some shockingly insightful solution, but I do always wonder if even a small percentage of these women aren't wanting sex for another reason. Other (reasonable) needs being met?  Are you willing to play to her fantasies?[/quote]

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