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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you need to concentrate less on your DH pleasing your parents, and more on accepting that that's not possible. You need to learn how to be ok with your mother NOT being ok. It's really her problem to deal with. Be loving, kind and as open as you can be without getting rebuked. After that, if your mother has complaints, that's on HER. It's not on you, or your DH and doesn't mean you need to do things differently to please her. The next time your mother brings up how much she doesn't like your DH, don't listen to it. "Mom, he's my husband, I won't allow you to talk about him like that.". If she continues "Mom, can we talk about something else?" and if not "Mom, we can talk when you're feeling less upset, bye now". [b]You don't need to prove to your mother that you and your DH are not elitist. You need to be ok with not having her approval. [/quote][/b] OP here. I agree with this. I just have no clue how to go about this.[/quote]
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