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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That I would like to have an affair with a woman.[/quote]

(I'm a woman who is happily married to a man.)[/quote]

Why won't you share this with him? [/quote]

He is not as sexually adventurous as I am, and I'm afraid of being negatively judged for it. I have been considering neutral ways of bringing it up, though.[/quote]

Put on lesbian porn, see if he likes it?  Don't virtually all men get turned on by two women getting it on?[/quote]

I am the PP again. I brought up the subject with my husband in a neutral way. I did not mention I was personally interested in women, I just wanted his opinion on the general subject. He said it has never been one of those things that turns him on.

First world problem, but I am pretty bummed! Even though he is not judging me (because he doesn't even know about my attraction to women), I feel judged just knowing he wouldn't approve. Also, I had hoped that we could at least play with the fantasy ourselves in bedroom... but I guess that idea is out the window now too.[/quote]

I brought up the subject with my DW, and she says women do nothing for her.  I am one of what I assumed was most men who are turned on by the thought of my DW with another woman.  I told my DW she could explore with women anytime, no need to ask, she said it will never happen.

Amazing how people like me and PP who have similar sexual interests never end up together.[/quote]

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