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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It would depend on how serious the nanny is.

If they are flaking out on families, complaining about their job, taking slight at the perceived domestic help nature of the job themselves, then I would not want to date them. If they seemed to treat it as a way to be employed until they got married and could stay home, I would have a problem with it.

But if they rocked it out like a pro, took it really seriously, absolutely not. [/quote]

How would you feel about a nanny who rocked it out like a pro, but also wanted to be a SAHM while her children were young? As a nanny, which I love and take my job very seriously and am quite professional, I cannot imagine not taking care of my own. [/quote]

PP here. If you are rocking it, are you earning comparable to private sector work? Are you with a high net worth family? Does the job bring benefits you couldn't get elsewhere that benefit your family life with your husband?  Being professional / rocking it encompasses more than showing up on time.. but if you are earning 50-60k or more, doing prof development   and have the rest of your act in gear, are saving as much of your income as possible, etc, the hesitation on his part is coming from sone where else in the relationship. [/quote]

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