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Reply to "If you aren't sexually attracted to your spouse"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People, it's not about sex drive. Guarantee you, if this woman started having an affair, she'd be having sex frequently with the new guy. It's about boredom in long relationships: the loss of excitement and novelty. That's why you have to get creative about recreating those feelings, to the extent that you can.[/quote] I agree. OP's wife would be swinging from the chandelier if she was having an affair, just as she was when she and OP were dating. But what this OP wants to know is if the reason she isn't into sex is if it's him personally or just typical boredom. I think it's boredom and he can't cure that (he can get novel in the bedroom but she will just as likely be annoyed the sex is taking longer than it should). Its a "problem" without a solution. If there was a solution, divorce lawyers, adultory websites and marriage counselors would be out of business[/quote]
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