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[quote=Anonymous][quote]This is so depressing. Partly because I can easily see how this happens. Do you think this kind of change over time is inevitable?[/quote] [/quote]

I don't think having one spouse never wanting sex again with other spouse is inevitable. But having the spouse- usually female - with responsive drive generally feeling like she can take or leave sex, miss the exciting sex she once had with nostalgia, and sometimes having good enough sex once the sex starts - that is inevitable for most couples. Some couples who are made of two people with individually high libidos - assuming no resentment or underlying issues - can keep a fire burning with novelty, experimentation, sometimes open relationships - because both people in the marriage are equally motivated by sex.

It's depressing if you went into marriage thinking it would be a lifetime of sexual exploration and fun. Which is like getting an English degree and expecting it will lead to riches. It might, but if you expect it will, you will likely be disappointed.[/quote]

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