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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You deserve to be left, OP.[/quote]

Why? I don't taste anything wrong with the way OP handled things. He clarified that he didn't just leave. They were today the day of the news and then he went to a friends party and she went to her sisters, as planned. Most can say they have drunk a little too much on one or two occasions. Unless OP is an alcoholic, getting drunk once in a whole isn't a major concern. I think they are both grieving. It was wrong for him to tell his sister, but I don't think he has done anything to warrant her needing a break.[/quote]

It was wrong for him to get drunk as well, it may have been his natural reaction , but it was wrong.  Being drunk and hen coming back expecting her to take care of him, is not  good. I might be willing to give more of a pass if he drank to much, crashed on the couch of a friend or his sister and sobered up.
I don't think he's done something completely unforgiveable, but I'm not the gf. My guess is this incident was the tipping point in the relationship for her.
In general I think they both have a lot of learning to do when it comes to being in a relationship.
I do agree with you that they are both grieving.
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