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[quote=Anonymous]1) You can have  bio kids--donor eggs. We are going that route after many years of IF treatments.

2) You have every right to process things with your sister. There are things I discuss with my BBFs that I don't say to DH. We process things differently. I don't hide things from DH, but I have one friend that I can go into tiny, tiny details as I work things out in my head. Once I've worked it out, then I talk to DH about it.

3) You both are grieving. Grieving makes us act in weird ways. My DH is super supportive. But when we had a stillbirth, we both acted badly. But we were also kind to each other and forgave each other some of the stuff we did/said.

4) Explain to her that you were grieving the loss of a combo bio child. But now you see that there are many options to having children. And you want to have kids with her, bio or not.

5) If she can't forgive you, then this isn't the woman for you. Yes, you made a mistake. But so does everyone. And if she can't see past that, and see how you are apologizing now...not the woman for you.

6) That being said, she is also grieving. And as I said before, grief makes people act weird. So forgive her if she says some mean things to you. Give her time to work through what she needs to work through.

7) Be kind to each other...be kind to each other...be kind to each other!![/quote]

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