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[quote=Anonymous]Hello OP, I don't think you should go through with the IVF. Your DH is not your children's "uncle" but their stepdad. I have a friend who has only one grandparent left in her children's lives. And that is her stepmom. It sounds to me like you have some issues in how you, your DH, and your children see each other's roles as a family unit. Money seems to factor in to the role of your ex-DH. Yes he is their biological father, but your DH may one day be their sole provider or caretaker. Maybe if he felt more as a stepdad instead of an "uncle" he wouldn't feel this desire to have his own biological child. [/quote]
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