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Reply to "WWYD in this situation? New husband wants a baby"
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[quote=Anonymous]This is a tough situation. I don't blame you for not wanting to go through with IVF and I don't blame him for wanting kids of his own. Maybe you could go with a surrogate mother? The problem is that I can see him getting a chip on his shoulder causing him to be less engaged in the relationship and with the kids. If you don't go through with IVF (and I don't blame you for not wanting to) you need to be realistic about how this will affect him emotionally. He is almost certainly going to feel resentment and grief and you need to address that and make sure that he is supported without dismissing his (valid) feelings but also not letting them fester into a problem.[/quote]
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