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[quote=Anonymous]I am the LL spouse and here is my problem.  Usually we have limited time for sex, it is late at night, we are both tired, and DH will kiss me for like one minute and then try to rush me into sex.  Or he wants me to go oral first since he needs time to recover in order to have intercourse.  Not happening.  After one minute of half-hearted kissing I'm not going down for a BJ.  Sory.  It makes me feel like he doesn't really want ME, he just wants a warm body to get off in.  He never compliments me on anything - my appearance, my parenting, the shit ton of things I do for my family including bringing home 2/3 of the income or support him in going to grad school, and I generally don't feel like I am ever actually SEEN.  Life is busy and we don't have time to connect. I try to initiate a meaningful conversation about something - anything - and it seems like I am annoying him.  Libido is as much in the head as anything, and if we're not connecting and I don't feel like he's into me as a person anymore, I'm not really raging to have sex.

And yeah, if you are going to turn her down when she DOES offer well, that's on you, buddy.  [/quote]

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