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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here with an update.  So, it turns out that my husband had an affair with a coworker.  He admitted to it and claims it is all over and now he wants us to stay together and he loves me more than anything, etc., etc.  So I guess he is not divorcing me today or this month, but now I am left with a whole other mess to sort through.  All of my worries about breaking up and not having my kids around are still true, and I obviously knew I wasn't perfect before.  But his actions are just so much to take.  So, so much.  As I wrote about earlier, I tried so hard and laid myself bare for him and all the while he was betraying me in the worst way.

I really hope this is the low point of my 40s and that things can only go up from here![/quote]

I would go on the infidelity board on marriage builders, there are a lot of stories on there. Is he still working with the co-worker?  If so I would proceed with caution. [/quote]

If it is not the coworker today, it will be someone else tomorrow.  He was willing to leave his family over this affair and only decided to stay when the affair ended.  OP's marriage is on borrowed time and the dumbest thing she can do is fail to realize that.  Her husband is only going to stay until he has the next bird in hand, at which point he is out.  Whether that is the kind of marriage OP wants is up to her.  Some women will keep a man on any terms they can get.[/quote]

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