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Reply to "If you are a woman with kids who divorced at 40+, how are things?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, If he has no money, and he likes being with the kids, why don't you make him a deal? He's probably unhappy and wants to leave because he is having an affair. Can you steel yourself for this and let him go sow his wild oats? Just sleep separately until he figures out what he wants? The seven year itch will probably run its course and maybe he'll decide to stay with his family. IF that is what you want. I divorced my cheater and I'm glad I did - but that's because the lies and gaslighting were so cruel. But what if you choose simply not to engage? Don't ask, don't tell, no lies. I couldn't do it but you indicated you are doing "everything you can" to save the marriage. What if you tried this?[/quote] Absolutely terrible advice. OP deserves better than to stay with a cheater who has checked out of the marriage.[/quote]
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