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[quote=Anonymous]Oh OP, until you said you were in Cali, I was sure you were my husband and this were a few years back. Same situation, I mean, almost exact same details. Husband married a woman years back, impressed with her ability to start a home cleaning business with no high school or other education so speak of, she swindles him, they marry, she quits her lucrative business, stops chasing her exes for support and lets him support hers and then their kids. Miserable lazy woman, works at the pharmacy now counting pills for $8 an hour and just moved in with an ex-con. Yay! But my husband paid for years, and she never spent a dime on their kids, hoarded all that money. But I digress. You can go for a change in circumstances, however, there are a few other things you haven't considered. The "change" may also include your support of new wife and child, as well as old wife having a job. Agree with PP who said spousal support is supposed to be for a period of time, but not for the length of the marriage -what the eff. Way to make a woman have zero desire to work again. I have a friend who was married in Cali for 20 years, and they gave him 10 of spousal support. There was a half/life thing on the marriage to support equation, so that's another issue you might be able to figure out. All the lawyers are going to maim me, but why not file on your own? It can't get worse, it could only get better, so why not go it alone and see what you come up with? Let her hire a lawyer and spend some money being a professional golddigger. And for what it's worth, I tell the hubs all the time, I cannot believe he got married again (to me.) Bitch almost ruined him for good. Damn.[/quote]
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