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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Team OP. F the haters[/quote]

Why do we have to be team anyone? Is her husband entirely to blame for the situation? I don't know, but we're just hearing her side. OP reminds me of someone I used to know. She was a high achieving woman who did well in her career, had the perfect body and a smoothly run household. He husband was lazy and a bit overweight. She would often complain about how he didn't do anything and when he did help it was the wrong way. Yes he was lazy, but she loved putting him down and he just became more and more of a doormat and they spiraled further and further into that dynamic. I don't know what happened to them but to me it seemed like a co-dependent relationship. That's why I suggested they do family activities like hiking on the weekends. It would get them out of the house and together as a family. Plus it would get her husband physically moving.

I was just suggesting that OP look to herself to see if she is contributing to the dynamic. Maybe she is maybe she isn't. Since couples counseling didn't work she may want to look into individual counseling. Or she could just divorce.[/quote]

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