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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow.  I keep feeling like there has to be more of a story here if he was soooo interested in her pregnancy but no questions about your pregnancy with his child and yet you are 100% convinced there is no sexual chemistry/affair potential with the friend.  There are a few possibilities I can think of.  Either, they have some bond where his loyalty is 100% with the friend like she was there when he went thru some rough sh$$ prior to meeting you and he knows he can depend on her or she went they some rough sh$$ and he feels like he is her knight in shining armour/things would fall apart if he turned his back on her.  T[b]he other possibility is this is some passive aggressive crap in your relationship with him like he feels like you try to control him and so he wants to feel like he has areas of his life that he makes the decision and rather than being direct about the underlying issue, he does things he knows will annoy you to assert his position or get back at you.  
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The bottom line is not matter what the theory, [b]it come back to your relationship with DH.  The bitchy female friend is actually irrelevant because she is just a symptom of whatever the real issue is between you and DH.  Focus on fixing the issues in your marriage and the female friend problem will resolve itself. [/b][/quote]

What this OP said. I put money on the bolded parts.[/quote]

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