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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All these women are missing the point. Many men -- I won't say all -- but many of us aren't bothered *as quickly* as you are by the dishes piling up, laundry not being done, or much more menial things like some dust on the floor or a lightbulb that goes out. In my experience women stress more about these things and cannot relax and be "fun sexy girl" that we fell in love with until every painting in the house is hung correctly etc. etc. Men can't stand that. It isn't what you sell us in the beginning of the relationship, but as soon as we move in together we're expected to be Bob Villa to your Martha Stewart. [/quote]

Sounds as if you need to become a homosexual since what men want is all you can think about.  How do you like penis?[/quote]

This is just a non sequitur and not a substantive response. No one has refuted my point that women frequently want marriage points for doing things that their spouse could take or leave. That makes no sense. I don't expect my spouse to give me points for working on my golf game. Likewise, I shouldn't have to give her points for finding tasteful accent pillows. My life would not change one iota with cranberry versus sage accent pillows.[/quote]

Okay, let me spell it out for you, dummy.  To the degree you want to date women, you have to care about what women want.  So what if men could live among rats and covered in feces on Skid Row with no running water?  Are you looking for a man?[/quote]

I suspect you are a woman. If not, you should talk to more men. There are lots of men who will tell you how, prior to marriage, their wives were mainly interesting in relaxing, grabbing dinner, cooking casually together and having lots of sex. Once they move in together the women suddenly feel so stressed about buying the right furniture, arranging it, making sure the baseboards are wiped down, laundry folded, etc. etc. They go from no frills fun into Martha Stewart ironwomen.

Dummy! Words hurt ya know. In any event, yes men need to care about what women want. But women lie to themselves about the fact that they show zero iota of concern about these things (chores, housework, picking out accent pillows) during the courtship period. Once snagged into matrimony they assert their Martha Stewart ways on their previously unsuspecting boyfriend who, now husband, wonder, "where did cool girl that I married go?"[/quote]

LOL if you accidentally married an interior decorator and weren't paying attention to her interests and likes when you were dating her than thats on you buddy. Women do not like, turn into Mrs. Cleaver as soon as they get the ring. Or if they do then there were other warning signs that that was coming that you just ignored. Or they're pathological gone girls. Seriously I don't know anyone who just ALL OF A SUDDEN turned into Martha Stewart lol. [/quote][/quote]

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