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[quote=Anonymous]I hear what the men are saying. They just want beer, football, sex, companionship, BBQs, etc. However, there are inescapable chores that come with having a household. Laundry, cooking, yardwork, dishes, bills, etc. I could say all I want is wine, friendship, restaurants, movies, and shoes but it's ignoring a huge chunk of responsibility. While we're watching football or shopping for shoes, how is the laundry getting done? Equitable chores are a huge part of a marriage. When they get lopsided, the person doing more feels like a maid or a servant. Constantly sacrificing the things she wants (wine) while the spouse just takes and takes (football). When she asks for help, she usually has to ask and ask several times. Then she's a nag. If not outright ignored. I consider myself lucky and purposefully married a man that is not lazy. However, I can see how a marriage could become a lose-lose scenario for a woman, and it is entirely based on chores.[/quote]
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