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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a woman and I kind of agree with the original poster that it is weird that a woman of her age who wants to get married and have kids would stay in the relationship if she isn't into him.

Which makes me think maybe she is into him in many ways.

Or the fact that you guys live together is not good. That can create relationship inertia. Maybe she just doesn't have it in her  to look for a new apartment and move right now.

Or I do wonder if there might be an undiagnosed health issue, such as depression thyroid whatever. She had a full medical work up about this? She talked to her gynecologist about it?[/quote]

Thanks for contributing your thoughts. OP here. Housing issue can't be it. We both own properties of our own. Wouldn't be hard to go back to living in our own places. FWIW, we are living her her home. Mine isn't that far away from hers. It's vacant.[/quote]

Ok, them I think either she's into you but just has libido issues and doesn't know how or is too tired and stressed to search for a solution right now.....or she is freaked that she is old and worried she won't find someone else but isn't sure she wants to be but is debating whether she should marry you anyway bc what if no on else comes along.

Re the first option, step up affection that doesn't necessarily lead tos ex. Tell her it's okay if you guys just cuddle or kiss and it doesn't lead to sex. Start with being more affectionate without sex.[/quote]

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