Reply to My parents hate my wife

Forum Index » Family Relationships

Reply to "My parents hate my wife"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should re-read your post.  Your wife is great.  Your parents are horrible to her for no reason.  You're going to have to chose one over the other.  Unfortunately for your DW, you already have chosen your parents once over a fiance.  Just like a child throwing a tantrum, since you've given in to them in the past, they know they can win.  They just have to ratchet it up a notch.

You don't need advice from DCUM, you need a counselor to help you establish and maintain boundaries with your parents.  That is, if you ever want to remain married to a person of your choosing.  You decide.[/quote]

True.  My wife says she wants a divorce and for me to just her go.  She's tired of fighting and so am I.  We only fight about them, otherwise our relationship is almost perfect.  [/quote]

If this is true, you are giving them what they want.  Why should you?  They clearly do *not* want to see you happy.  My DH has a mother like this, and I have nothing to do with her.  She can tell the whole world she "just doesn't like me", or she can just shove it up her puckered ass (but it would not fit, given the stick) - so there's that.  Honestly OP, after a certain age you just don't have to give in to bullies.  Your awful mother made her choices, now she has to live with them.  She is not absolved from anything "because she is your mother", so forget that idea.  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics