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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't you go with him?[/quote]

OP here. Because i do not like the female friend and see no reason in why we need to visit her. [/quote] It doesn't matter if you like her. She is hid friend. If you don't want yo go, then he goes alone. Are you always this selfish and self-absorbed. Everything cannot always be about what you want.[/quote]

OP here. He had an opportunity to visit. He decided not to go. I even said they can each drive one hour each way and we can meet at a restaurant. He said no but is now planning to go back down there again to visit. It would still be a two hour drive so wtf, yes im pissed[/quote]

So the logistics are that he will drive two hours now to visit, and if he had driven during the vacation it would have been two hours? Could it be that during a relatively short vacation, such as one week, he was already tired from one two-hour drive, with the prospect of soon another two-hour drive back, and didn't want to spend four hours total driving (round trip) in the middle of your already short vacation when there were other things he wanted to do with your family in your vacation locale?

Did he say his visit to his friend would be for the whole weekend? It seems possible to visit someone two hours away and drive back the same day.

Could the friend's coldness really be shyness and social awkwardness with people she doesn't know well? If there were actual feelings between her and your DH, wouldn't she project friendliness as a cover, if she had the wherewithal to do so?[/quote]

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