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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of my old friends is getting married in a few weeks.  We never got a save the date card, but the invitation arrived just a few weeks ago.  Unfortunately, it's on a Friday night when I'm returning to DC from a business trip, and the wedding is in Miami.  I am unable to change the trip AND I had mentioned it to her last time I'd seen her because it's a big deal and I'm pretty stressed about it.  I send the RSVP card back declining, then sent her an email jokingly asking her why she had to get married on a day I can't attend.  She replied back "It was on purpose. Well, I guess this is awkward."

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I didn't even reply because I really don't even understand what's going on here.  I feel so snubbed.  Who schedules a wedding for a day when you know a friend can't attend?  I totally understand not being able to schedule it so [i]everyone [/i]can attend, but that's not what happened here. Do I write her off as a friend?

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fly direct to miami.  get to ceremony late if you must
anything else says you don't care[/quote]

For fuck's sake. EVERYONE schedules a wedding on a day a friend can't attend. If you invite more than 20 people, it's pretty much guaranteed someone won't be able to make it. Grow up.

Also, agree with PP. If this friend meant enough to you, you'd rearrange your flights or get there late so you could be there for her. Obviously she doesn't mean that much to you. Just own it.[/quote]

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