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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh honey. I'm so sorry you are going through this.

First thing first, OP. Get that infant into daycare. aYou are going to need it anyway when he's gone and it will take away the whole I'm a SAHP thing pay me extra support and alimony your DH is (likely) going to pull when you are in a divorce proceeding.  Second, get good childcare because your children are being cared for by a pothead. That doesn't bode well.

Third, you need to get to an attorney asap. [b]They will give you a road map to follow to protect your assets and children, including what type of documentation would be helpful in a child custody proceeding[/b].

Finally, go to therapy. Alone. You need to take a beat and look into how you can be the most stable caregiver for your children. [/quote]

He gave up his dreams to support her and take care of the children so she can have the freedom to work, build her career, seek after her dreams. She owe him half the marital assets after all, he contributed at least 50% to the marriage and she couldn't earn the money without the support he provided her. The value of all the work he does every day has a dollar value that I'm sure she never compensated him for. She should step up and be a woman and own the fact that he should get half and because he is  the primary parent he should get primary custody. She should move out of the house because she is the earning spouse but pay for all the current expenses of the household during the separation and divorce. This is how it is typically done. Why should she get to stay in the house and keep all the assets?[/quote]

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