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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guest room, but honestly[b] I wouldn't end a marriage over smoking weed. [/quote][/b]

This is a legit reason to end a marriage. Why wouldn't it....??! Who wants to be married to someone who likes to inhale this stuff into their lungs daily thus creating a person who not only wants to eat everything in the pantry, but also laughs at everything and everyone for no good reason, all while sitting on the couch w/glassy and bloodshot eyes. Wow...Real winner there. A real catch. Not.

OP, like you stated, there is also the issue of deception, betrayal and addiction here. These are all huge dealbreakers in any relationship, romantic or not.

People who need to smoke weed daily are addicts in my opinion.

Anyway, that being said...I say stick to your guns. Tell your husband in [i]no uncertain terms[/i] will you take him back unless he seeks professional help with his drug problem. He already had a warning and blew it. If he gets defensive and refuses, then you know how dedicated he is to your marriage and family sadly.

Re: His living situation...Can you afford to hire a provider to watch the kids while you work?? If so, great. If not, you will still need him around for childcare so you may have no other choice but to let him continue living on the property. The guest house will work for now.

Good luck.[/quote]
You are probably around people who have recently smoked all the time without realizing it. It's not all refer madness just like everyone who has a drink doesn't get frat boy wasted. [/quote]

Seriously... not everyone behaves like a character from Half Baked when high but if your only experience with this is from watching movies I can see how you'd think so.[/quote]

I disagree.  It's easy to be annoyed by high or drunk people when you are sober. They act dumber than usual. [/quote]

Some of them, sure.  Not all.  I have been smoking 20 years and no one knows unless I tell them.
You will now say that's not true but I'm telling you it is and have no reason to lie.[/quote]

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