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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My bf is dedicated to me and [b]goes through hell to ensure I am happy and satisfied[/b]. He's everything I want in a man except that he doesn't have a high flying career.[b] He works very hard and has a good work ethic but he isn't a go getter and isn't ambitious. He is so smart and he can do so much but he just doesn't have the drive and seems happy to work his low paying job.

I kind of find his lack of ambition unattractive and it's affecting our sex life.

What should I do?[/quote]

NP here. I'm seeing OP's post much differently from all PPs. I don't think a woman posted this. I think the unambitious BF of a frequent DCUM poster posted this.

Would she say "goes through hell to ensure that I am happy and satisfied"? That sounds like the cry of a boyfriend who feels unappreciated, not the dispassionate evaluation of an ambivalent girlfriend.
 
Would she use the term "high-flying career", to describe what she wishes he had? That sounds more like the vague description by an insecure boyfriend of what he thinks his girlfriend wants.[/quote]

Interesting. I could see this. Not sure though, and I think the answer is the same to either of them. This relationship ain't gonna work.

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