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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The cruelty towards the OP in this thread is disappointing. He feels violated, out of sorts and thrown for a loop. He was molested as a child.

Yes, lets all call him homophobic, make fun of his choice of words and tell him he should get over it.

"Be a good little girl, he just slapped your ass, you were wearing a short skirt, that doesn't make you a slut but it also doesn't mean you can cry about it like some rape victim."[/quote]

Yeah, no one is saying that.[/quote]

Have you read the thread?

Hes homophobic, violent, needs therapy, "who says slugged in 2015" and been told over and over to get over it.[/quote]

No, we didn't say that. Plenty of people have acknowledged that it's understandable to be upset. We just disagree that it's a worse violation than other lies, which is what OP has been arguing (eg, legal action).[/quote]

I do acknowledge that legal action may be a stretch. But it feels like something should happen. This can't become normal and it won't .If for anything, protection for the transgender community. I have never seriously punched anyone in the face or gotten into a fight before and I almost knocked his ass out. What would someone do who has a lot less restraint? I'm the second person he's done this too according to him. I am actually becoming increasingly concerned for the very man I currently hate. [/quote]

I can not in a million years believe that transgendered people do this on a routine basis.  They've usually struggled for years with their own identity, I just can't imagine that they would casually spring this on unsuspecting dates.  Not likely.[/quote]

Its actually a huge thing in the transgender community. There are staunch first date people and other are staunchly on the side of only when sex comes into play and yet others that think since they are women or men they never have to tell.[/quote]

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