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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a professional woman with two graduate degrees in her early 40s with loans and credit card bills that were used to support my basic living expenses in my 20s (rent, books, etc.) that I feel I will never, ever, ever get out from underneath of, I say go for it.  I am shackled with debt even though I've had a job since I was 13 and I don't live beyond my means. But I have gotten a great education and lived in more expensive cities and, like you, have made something of myself despite my poverty-stricken childhood with a mentally ill single parent.  My only regret is that I didn't do something like this when I was younger. And you really have none of the concerns that would worry me--trying to establish this relationship with a stranger, trying to do this with someone you found physically revolting or someone whose company you didn't enjoy.  He's a nice guy who you already know isn't a freak. He's ok in bed. He's done this before. GO FOR IT.

But, I really would just embrace it and do it right. Screw feeling too morally shy to get a good deal for yourself. If you're doing it, do it smart.  Tuition PLUS other stuff--not "gifts" and not cash. Tangible stuff. Like rent.  And have it paid in advance (it will help take out the transactional nature of it). And you two need a real conversation re: whether you are permitted to date others and also talk birth control and STD protection.  And have an end date. It will be helpful to you both.  The exit is the thing that could get really, really messy. For both of you. What if you want out and he doesn't? Vice versa. Have clear conversations now so it's workable when it ends.  And good luck.

And when it's over, don't look back. You are alone in this world. You did what you needed to do and it doesn't have to define who you will be later.
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Totally agree.
THIS is the advice you need to take, OP.[/quote]

No one HAS to be a prostitute[/quote]

True. A surprising number of people manage to attend and graduate from college without resorting to prostitution. Every year.

OP, this isn't the only way you can finish school. It's merely the easy way. If you're OK with that then have at it. It's your life and your decision.[/quote]

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