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And what you don't understand is that *I* am saying is divorce this man. Go make a baby with donor sperm or adopt an embryo or child. Forget trying to find someone else to marry and all that. Worry about having a man later, focusing on having a child now. But absolutely DO NOT just go and get pregnant with donor sperm behind her husband's back. Just leave him and let him have the life he wants while she goes and gets the child she wants. 
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This sounds really idealistic, but a few things:
She might not conceive, so she will be alone, and childless. 
Two, raising a child alone is tricky, not impossible, but tricky. There is a chance, 20%, that her DH will stick by her. 
She just has to tell him that no amount of discussion would have helped her decide. Having a child mattered too much, so she went ahead and did it. Of course she should  tell him that she loved him and that her marriage mattered and all that, but she also needs to remind him that without her child, or attempts at having one, the marriage would have failed anyway. 
Another reason she should say nothing is if she does not conceive, the less he knows, the better. 
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