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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I'm reading all the replies, and I have a couple of responses.

First, I don't see this as a "dead-end" relationship because[b] I don't want to be married.[/b]  I am astounded by the number of people who don't understand this. I can't possibly be the only middle-aged woman who has never wanted to be married.

Second, why did I post this?  My girlfriends have been telling me that I am wrong because, according to them, I've broken some "code of the sisterhood".  I wanted to see if people on here agreed.  I just don't think I have any responsibility to "the sisterhood" any more than I do for his marriage vows.  If I saw a woman hanging from a cliff, I would try to save her. Not because she is a woman, but because she is human.

Third, they have 3 adult children, no grandkids.

You all may be right that I'm a rotten person, karma will get me, someday I'll be lonely, etc., but for now I'm extremely content.

It seems as if I'm hearing from women and I'd be interested to hear from some guys and get their point of view also.[/quote]

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