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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] don't want to see my dd who is just 10 in the same mess[/quote]

Why would she be in the same mess? Emotionally healthy, sexually active women do not turn out like this.

Stop making it about "sex". Then your daughter is more likely to be well adjusted.[/quote]
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This! It's not about sex, it's not about promiscuity, it's about emotional health. And you will find emotionally healthy women on both ends of the promiscuity spectrum.[/quote]

I have personally never met a promiscuous woman (or man) who is emotionally healthy.  [/quote]

Don't project your moral standards onto others.  Emotional health is one thing.  Strong libido a completely different thing and so is an open mind and sexuality.
There are people who are more uninhibited than others.  Plain simple[/quote]

Don't project your assumptions onto my statement.  I am not talking about moral standards, I am talking about emotional health.  This means having good friendships, being able to cope with difficult circumstances without the assistance of drugs or alcohol, showing kindness and compassion to others without expecting something in return, etc.

The promiscuous people that I have known well do not have these attributes that suggest emotional health.[/quote]
Enjoying sex and not requiring a serious long term relationship to have it has nothing to do with having friends, not using drugs and being kind. [/quote]

I'm just saying, I've noticed that correlation.  I don't know what the root cause is or may be.[/quote]

You have noticed no correlation.  You are just projecting the moral standards of society.  Projection--that's all.

Oh, and closed mind to boot, but you can work on that.[/quote]

You have no idea how open or closed minded I am or what I've observed, especially based on 3-4 sentences.  You are just trying to insult me.  I am not impressed, and I wonder why you would attempt to make your point using insults, unless you don't have a very good argument.  How do you know I am "projecting?"  You are just attempting to make my observations seem illegitimate using random words.

What do you mean by "the moral standards of society?"  Are you saying that kindness, stability, and friendships, are merely social constructs and having nothing to do with the emotional health of a person?  In that case I would say that "emotional health" must mean nothing, as well, and is just a societal construct.[/quote]

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