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Reply to ""The Giving Tree" book -- what am I supposed to make of this?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The tree is gendered, folks. It's not just about a tree/parent, it's female. And the kid/taker is male. BIG problem.[/quote] Isn't that often true? The story never says that relationships should be that way. The tree is not a hero. [/quote] i always thought the tree was male, too.[/quote] Sorry. I'm the "The tree is not a hero" poster. I think I explained it badly. The tree is definitely female. The opening ,I've is something like "Once there was a tree and SHE lived a little boy". My points were 1) I know lots of relationships that fit this mold and the "tree" person is almost always female. 2) I think you can read the book 2 ways. One way is that the tree is the hero and we should emulate her. I think this gives a very warped message. I also think that you can read it as "Sometimes people are like this. Discuss. . . ". And then I think it's a really fantastic book because it lets you have deep conversations. Of course that also means it's not really a book for 3 year olds. [/quote]
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