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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in a bit of a panick here and need some advice. I found condoms in my husband's gym bag.  We do not use condoms. Do i confront him now or wait for more evidence?  And if i wait, how do i get the evidence?  If i say something now, he will just deny it and make some excuse - they are old, i didnt even know they were there, i use them to masterbate.   Ive been down this road before, unfortunately.

Any help? I am not thinking straight. [/quote]

I'm sorry, this has to be really hard. You say you have been down this road before, I am going to assume you mean he has a history of cheating.

I would ask him straight out "Why are there condoms in your gym bag?" He'll either say they are someone elses or that he is cheating. If he doesn't admit to cheating say "If you are cheating I want to know, so we can figure out where to go from here, so please just be honest"

Remember you can only control your actions here. If you don't want to be cheated on, either open up your marriage or dissolve it. You have to make the choice for yourself. He has already made the choice to be deceitful and disrespectful of you and your relationship.[/quote]

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