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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You've admittidly been down this road before. What happened last time?[/quote] I gave him a second chance and went to lots of therapy. And then we had a kid. And, I just am beside myself. [/quote] Sorry OP. Once a cheater, always a cheater. [/quote] This is not true for everyone. People can and [i]do[/i] change but that is a choice. OP, I suggest putting a tracking app on their phone or GPS tracker under their car seat. You can install a keylogger program on their computer to trace emails/PMs/chat activity. Sit back and collect the evidence for two reasons: He can't deny it with proof and you'll have peace of mind one way or the other. Hang in there [/quote] Don't do this. This isn't his first rodeo, and he's probably gotten better at covering his tracks anyway. What if OP finds nothing but he discovers the tracking app/GPS tracker/keylogger? Then she gets to deal with accusations of being crazy, on top of the suspicions that her husband is cheating. OP, find someplace to stay this weekend (a friend's house, a hotel, whatever). Confront him tonight and tell him you and your child are leaving for the weekend so that he can pack and move, but you expect him to be out by 3 pm on Sunday.[/quote] I would NOT leave my house, can't this have implications in the divorce? I would tell him HE needs to leave now, but can come and pack on sunday/whatever day. I'm so sorry that this is happening to you OP. [/quote]
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