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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Now if you don't sleep with someone, then you are playing games. Interesting. So getting to know the person before having sex is playing mind games. [/quote]

I met my guy online, we emailed for a bit- then texted throughout the day for a week. We had our first date that lasted 6+ hours, I got to know him before I had sex with him, just  because it doesn't fit your ideal doesn't make it wrong from everyone[/quote]

DI'd he marry you?[/quote]

planning the wedding for later this year, it was an obvious match and our first date went on for over 24 hours. Do I think sleeping with someone on the first date is always a great idea? no! But in some cases it isn't what some of you posters are insinuating. We knew we really liked each other and found something great and I never had a doubt in my mind on how my guy viewed me for having sex on the first date. That doesn't always happen but it doesn't mean it can't[/quote]

Texting throughout the day for a week must have meant that you did get to know the guy pretty well before the first date. He wasn't really a stranger. Other people who had a lasting relationship after first-date sex may have known each other somewhat before then too -- knew them from school, from work, through friends, etc. It could seem unselective on both people's part if they had sex after the first date with a total stranger, not knowing details of health, relationship history, relationship goals, etc. I wonder if some of the first-date sex leading to long-term relationships was between people who already knew each other to some extent, not complete strangers who just met in a bar.[/quote]

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