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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many judgmental harpies on here -- tell me, why does it matter to you if you got your job search going within 48 hrs of losing a job and someone else got theirs going within 8 months or a yr or 2 yrs? Did it occur to you that there are people out there with high incomes and high savings rates and thus can coast for a yr or more, even with kids? [/quote]

Awesome for those of you who have the luxury to coast for months/years with no income - just don't criticize those of us who are forced to light a fire under our asses.[/quote]

If you're forced to light a fire, that's fine, but why is it WRONG if someone doesn't have to? Is it so terrible that someone else could have a different financial situation where they can take months/years off and then figure out their next move? Why does it bother you enough to say that they're mentally ill or that there's something wrong with them for taking so long? I mean are you paying their bills?[/quote]

exactly. At the end of the day people react differently to situations. If OP's DH is doing the best he can, he shoudl be encouraged on.[/quote]

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