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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH wants to say to this forum that the stepson was doing other drugs too (exstasy, hookah, Drinking). DH says stepson did crack, Stepson says he never did.  DW says Stepson now works at a place that drug tests and has never failed a drug test and moved out.

DH wants to add that no one thinks he's innocent because they don't know him and they don't know how awful DW is and how unreasonable she is.

DW says that's a great reason to leave, but doesn't justify the lying.

And this is another example of why this is circular.........[/quote]

So the son no longer lives in the home? But you're still arguing about him?

Otherwise nice, decent people do cheat-I know, I was married to one.

Having a partner who is "awful" and "unreasonable" doesn't justify inappropriate relationships.

I think you guys need to live separately for at least a month.  Go to individual therapy.  Think about whether you want to be in this relationship, and how you would be a better partner.  You both need to have some space to step away from the anger and bitterness.[/quote]

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