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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - back to this thread because it seems DH is drinking again but I can't be sure. Any advice from folk out there how to go about confronting him given the background above and that I'm not 100%?  Should I wait until I'm sure?  What damage do I risk if he's not drinking again?

Unfortunately I don't think I have the patience to be sure or nice about it, but I could be convinced.  Just so frustrating. [/quote]

I have been in this situation. My suggestion is do nothing. It will be evident in due time. Those of us who have been on the other side know we have dealt with so much deceit in the past...confrontation, especially without proof, is an invitation to lie some more.

If you are working your program, and I hope you are, keep doing so. If not, please give it a try.

Best to you![/quote]

I didn't bother asking since there was a good chance he would lie. I just said, "I think you are drinking again. Don't bother denying it. Just my spidey sense." I'm lucky, DH told me I had every right to not trust him. He said he wasn't, but understood my mistrust. Turns out, a few weeks later he did drink. Yeah, my spidey sense can kinda tell when the urge is building up in him.   [/quote]

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