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Hey, she said she's 100% cool with their arrangement. Back off. Everyone is entitled to their own view of marriage, the conditions that want/allow/choose.

His unkindness and lack of compassion, that's not part of the deal.
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No backing off.  It's likely his lack of compassion that led to this "deal" in the first place.

OP, it doesn't matter who pays the most. It's more logical to break it down first by work hours. If you are both out of the house around the same a out of time, you should both be doing about half the work each at home.

Then consider who likes what or who's better at what.  My husband gets home an hour earlier than me and loves cooking, so he does weekday dinners. I like yard work.  He has grass pollen allergies. So I do that.  I do do more cleaning because I like it cleaner, but he does more laundry, which I hate.  It doesn't have to be 50/50 but it should be a mutually agreed upon, and sustainable but flexible joint agreement.[/quote]

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