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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Seriously if you are not having sex by the third date it's time to move on. [/quote]

Seriously repeating this over and over isn't going to make everyone do it.[/quote]

NP DH here:  mid-40s, married more than 10 years, but when I was dating in my late 20s in the 1990s this was pretty much industry standard from my perspective.  Sometimes not intercourse, but either that or a BJ in most cases.  Not sure if my experience was an outlier or not, though.  [/quote]

DH here too, and just posted in agreement.  I am late 40s and married a while.  I'm not sure I'd call this "industry standard" but it's not uncommon.  At least some kind of physical interaction.  When I was dating I had one or two relationships where it was very clear there were substantial physical sparks - which involved making out - but no sex because she didn't want to rush.  I actually held off on sex with the last two women I dated (one of whom is DW) for longer than they expected (single digits of dates though).  However, it was very clear there were physical sparks and kissing was involved much much sooner.

Kissing isn't at all on any kind of libertine edge culturally and hasn't been for a few generations; if you don't want to kiss by the 2nd date, then either there is no attraction or you are uncomfortable with intimate physical contact for some other reason, either of which is a reason to end the dating as far as I'm concerned.[/quote]

Or you just want to make sure the man is not an axe murderer or a child molester before you kiss him.[/quote]

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