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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had used the more optimistic phrase "meeting my needs" but a subsequent poster responded and introduced the less pleasant spin "meeting my demands"

Either way, it's like this:
- my wife needed to hear the truth (that I'd no intention to stay both faithful and near celibates get term)
- I had to convey this message in the most positive way possible, accepting my side of things, but making certain she understood my needs from a happy marriage
- she chose to fix things, and I can't fully get inside her head to know her full motivation, but I'm a lot happier believing that she now has sex because she loves me and enjoys being with me and pleasing me (despite her far lower baseline sexual desire)[/quote]

I remember you from an earlier thread.  You threatened your wife with cheating if she did not start putting out 3x/week. Yuck.[/quote]

Even Worse Yuck is a withholding spouse.
It wasn't a threat to cheat. And i did not cheat in secret.
It was the truth: i refuse to stay faithful to a sexless spouse.
Problem solved. No regrets here and advise others to likewise be honest.
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Well if I recall correctly, it was not a sexless marriage - just not up to your specifications. And you gave your wife some kind of deadline and requirements to refrain from cheating. Yuck, I will repeat.  [/quote]

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