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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Multiple reasons:
1. I haven't lost baby weight so have image issues.  And, I can tell that while he wants sex generically, he is turned off by me. For example, if he walked into the bathroom when I was showering, he used to watch me while we talked.  Now he makes a point of avoiding the bathroom or not looking at me.  So, neither of us is turned on by me.

2. I'm tired.  Frankly, sleep sounds better than sex as a busy WOHP.

3. DH is very skilled and I orgasm very quickly.  Due to some medications he now takes, it takes him forever.  It'll take me five minutes to come and I'm done, then I spend half an hour giving oral sex while he tries his best.  I love DH, but it doesn't balance out to make it worth the effort for me.  That sounds cold in writing, and I don't mean it to.  I love him, but see number 2.  After a certain point in time, once we both know that I'm done, then it's all about me servicing him and it's exhausting.[/quote]

If he is on medications that make it hard for him to orgasm, than his general sexual interest will also be impacted. Do yourself a favor and keep that in mind; it really might not be the fault of your baby weight! [/quote]

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