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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly OP why would you care what a bunch of strangers think? Please do not allow the racists in this world to dictate how you live your life and the choices that you make. I did not take my husbands name and I dont care what anyone thinks and the fact is that most people know that we are married - I wear a ring, I talk about my husband and most important, he is pretty visible in our day to day life. I would be less worried about your name and focus more on making sure that you have a partner who is going to be an active participant in your children's life. This at the end of the day is what will make a difference in their life not whether random people think that they are "another black child born out of wedlock".[/quote] Agreed. If anything, I believe people need to see more variation to lessen the assumption that X + Y = Z. [/quote]
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