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[quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't do it. My BIL and his long-term girlfriend are definitely addicted to pills. He's a nice guy, loves my DCs, they love him, but I told my MIL we would never stay in the same place as them on vacation because of it. I don't want DCs around them unsupervised but mostly I don't want DCs to accidentally find whatever it is the BIL is taking. So we all still go to the beach together, but my family rents a separate (nearby) place to stay. That's the long way to say I understand the position you are in. But I agree with PPs that this is not a situation to send your DD to for a week. It isn't just the addiction that bothers me (lots of people have addictions and we never know it). It's the bad judgment and that the BIL is living at home with no job. I distrust anyone who is content to l not work. I suspect he's still doing drugs and just doesn't want to be drug tested. [/quote]
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