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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'll go for another angle. I used to love sex, but don't enjoy it that much anymore. And my libido is no where near what it used to be. My husband is awesome in bed. He's great around the house. Totally handsome. But my hormones have changed over the years. He is great, and I have learned to go with his advances even if I'm not in the mood. And I tell him what helps me get turned on. But it took a while for me to get to that point. I used to be frustrated at his desires and annoyed that he wanted it when I didn't - even though he wasn't doing anything "wrong". It was and is frustrating to me that I don't have the desire I used to. I just deal with it better now. [/quote] Well, that was a reflective, reasoned response to a difficult and nuanced problem. Therefore, I presume it violates forum rules and should be removed. [/quote] OP here. This is indeed reflective. The first seven or so sentences describe our situation perfectly -- though I don't really know how good I am in bed; I'm probably about average. Anyway, here's hoping that the second half of this plays out in our marriage. [/quote]
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